1. You Trigger Each Other’s Growth
In your synastry chart, Jupiter’s quincunx to Lilith represents friction that ultimately leads to growth. At first, this aspect can make Lilith feel irritated and uncomfortable with Jupiter’s belief systems. But gradually, you help activate each other’s highest capacity for forgiveness.
Your partner’s Lilith side – their raw, unfiltered instincts and desires – may clash with your Jupiterian need for conscious actions and intentions. You awaken primal passions in Lilith, yet you demand a strong moral boundary. This relationship can be liberating yet chaotic.
You don’t always approve of each other’s impulses and worldviews. But over time, you expand each other’s horizons. Your Lilith partner shows you new ways of being while you inspire their higher wisdom. Growth happens through dynamic friction in this bond, based on the Law of Rhythm.
2. You May Have Clashing Morals
With Jupiter quincunx Lilith synastry, your philosophies on life often diverge, leading to conflict. Your Jupiterian thinking can feel dogmatic or controlling to your partner. Meanwhile, they may seem too easygoing or unlawful to you.
Agreeing on the “right” way forward can take great effort and compromise. One of you wants to set rules while the other resists too many restrictions. One of you may take a liberal “just do it” approach while the other has strong a dislike for freedom-seeking conduct.
You tend to have different ideas on what constitutes meaningful behaviors or a life well lived. Jupiter’s moral codes can clash with Lilith’s concepts of right and wrong. What you see as offensive, they may see as no big deal.
Until you learn to reconcile each other’s divergent views, self-righteousness can keep rising. You may judge each other harshly for beliefs that seem unethical or different from yours.
3. Double Standards Can Cause Conflict
Jupiter quincunx Lilith synastry can breed hypocrisy and double standards. You may cast judgments about your partner’s choices while excusing your own mistakes. They may rebel against the rules you impose, the ones you yourself don’t adhere to.
For example, one of you may criticize the other’s sexual history while hiding certain exploits of their own. Or one of you may condemn the other’s excesses and overindulgence while they are actually the one who overdoes it.
Lilith rebels against injustice, so any smell of double standards can lead to a strong reaction. If you long for an equal partnership, you must hold yourself to the same standards you expect from your partner.
4. Temptations Can Be Magnified
With Jupiter’s expansiveness quincunx Lilith’s lusty nature, temptation is alluring between you two. Together, you become a magnet for pleasure-seeking activities and decadence.
Addictive substances, sex, food, and other indulgences can easily lure you as a couple. You’re daring and encourage each other to pursue even greater heights of excess. You’re enamored…yet distressed by how far things go.