Synastry

Mars Conjunct Chiron Synastry: Anger Can Hurt, But Lovemaking Can Heal

1. A Classroom About Childhood Arrogance

With Mars-Chiron conjunction, your unlearned childhood arrogance lessons can surface in this relationship. The Mars person likely sees himself through the mirror of the Chiron person – someone who is hot-headed, arrogant, and willful (these roles can be switched).

Mars will learn that his angry self can’t really solve any problem. Chiron can suppress Mars’ will, so self-protection through passive aggression can happen. Mars may feel powerless and unconfident due to hot-tempered Chiron, who was himself in the past.

Mars learns not to repeat the same mistakes in the future. And Chiron will bring the needed motivation to push Mars forward.

2. Healing Through Physical Intimacy

Mars conjunct Chiron synastry allows healing to happen through physical intimacy. Your sexual union has a touch of transcendence and supernormal empathy.

This is a relationship where you can heal wounds around self-confidence, courage, and inhibitions related to sexuality. Mars is a sexual planet, after all. You create a safe space to express yourselves intimately and be accepted at your most fragile.

3. Competitive Energies

Chiron can either heal or wound, so Mars conjunct Chiron synastry can sometimes indicate competitive energies between you. This conjunction hates violence, because it hurts.

One partner tends to be quiet and shy while the other is aggressive and dominant. One of you may even try to dominate or “win” in the bedroom. You’ll need to restrain yourselves if you start turning sex into a competition or benchmarking your prowess against the other person.

It’s better to relinquish your ego here and focus fully on selfless lovemaking – not proving something. There are karmic consequences of having premarital sex, so you should also pay attention to this.

4. Passion Fuels Personal Growth

Mars conjunct Chiron synastry injects passion and enthusiasm into your personal growth. Together, you inspire each other’s willpower and self-development. You empower one another to learn wisdom from your own experiences.

In this partnership, the power of healing is the power of taking action. Your relationship provides a lively training ground for your inner fighters. You challenge each other lovingly to develop healthy assertiveness. In the process, you become the best version of yourselves.

Chiron can heal Mars’ sense of ambition, while Mars can heal Chiron’s sense of purpose. This Mars-Chiron conjunction forges character growth.