1. It’s Hard To Be Friend
Having your Mars conjunct someone’s Lilith indicates there will be a strong magnetic attraction and chemistry between you. Your Mars energy activates your partner’s libido in a way that lights a fire within their heart.
Mars-Lilith conjunction in synastry can create so much heat between you that remaining just friends would be nearly impossible. The sexual tension could be intense and you find yourself strongly desiring intimacy with this person.
However, it’s important not to get carried away by the passion alone. Your partner can stir within you a primal energy that may have been dormant before. You start to explore new parts of yourself you didn’t know existed and feel empowered by your desires.
With your masculine Mars stimulating their feminine Lilith, this is a balance of yin-yang. However, you should be mindful that anything that goes beyond the boundary of self-restraint will be met with negative consequences, such as eating the forbidden fruit before it is maritally ripe.
2. Arguments Can Get Intense
Arguments are inevitable in any close relationship. With your Mars-Lilith synastry aspect, your disagreements may carry extra charge given how passionately you’re both invested.
You can trigger each other’s most sensitive spots, since Lilith indicates past shame. Your debates can turn heated quickly as you strive to assert your will to be the decision-maker. Your partner declaring certain topics off-limits may only make you more determined to breach those boundaries.
Defensiveness can rise high on both sides, with violence and aggression sometimes thrown in the heat of the moment. The key is to agree on some ground rules before arguing, so you know what a productive discussion looks like.
3. Assertiveness, Competitive Instincts, And Control Dynamics
With Mars conjunct Lilith synastry, you may find yourself highly motivated to take charge, push boundaries, and stir up some underlying rebellious streaks.
This can add an alluring quality of naughtiness and enthusiasm to your relationship. However, it could also subtly seed an undercurrent of manipulation and power struggles into your dynamic.
Given Mars’ nature to prove itself and Lilith’s independent qualities, you may experience things like provoking each other’s competitive sides for fun. This aspect can also indicate jealousy, a passion that burns too hot yet too fast, and hidden cravings that one or both of you haven’t explored before.
The fiery attraction that creates heat could also incite fierce disputes. Micro-contests that feel thrilling can also cause discord eventually. You may find yourselves fascinated and almost magnetically drawn to each other’s forbidden qualities.