Synastry

Uranus Square Lilith Synastry: Embracing the Unpredictable

1. Expect The Unexpected

When Uranus squares Lilith in synastry, expect the unexpected in your relationship! Sparks fly when you’re together, sometimes in excitement, sometimes in heated arguments. Uranus can shock Lilith to realize her sexual shame. Lilith’s wisdom can help heal Uranus’ sexual wounds.

But in your method of healing each other, you may lack empathy, patience, and tolerance. You may “challenge” rather than “support” your partner to heal their wounds.

Stability will come by embracing change – not avoiding it. Buckle up!

2. You Bring Out Each Other’s Radical Side

Lilith can draw out Uranus’ hidden desires while Uranus aims to liberate them. Uranus also inspires Lilith to transform their shadow totally.

Inhibitions fall away when you’re together. You may find yourself saying or doing shocking things you never would alone. Your Lilith partner can awaken your Uranian darkest impulses, but also help you feel free.

Your relationship provides a safe haven where you both can be provocative, weird, and totally yourselves. You inspire each other’s independence and nonconformity. But this freedom can also be destabilizing.

3. Power Struggles Can Arise Often

With this turbulent square, control issues and power struggles may occur often. You both crave freedom fiercely and refuse to be dominated by the other.

Attempts to assert authority are often met with hostility and rebellion. Neither of you will submit easily. You incite each other’s resistant/stubborn side.

At times, your egos may clash explosively over the issue of responsibility. Uranus-Lilith square can indicate a lack of commitment in your partnership.

4. Unconventional Relationship Values

Given the unorthodox nature of both these planetary archetypes, you likely relate in ways that defy conventions and norms. Traditional gender roles probably have no place here.

Your values may necessitate an open relationship, unique living arrangements, or a common law partnership. But you know what?

Loyalty, commitment, trust, and marriage are timeless values that will never change to make a successful relationship.

You may also have had sex before marriage. There are spiritual consequences of premarital sex.