1. Expect The Unexpected
When Uranus squares Lilith in synastry, expect the unexpected in your relationship! Sparks fly when you’re together, sometimes in excitement, sometimes in heated arguments. Uranus can shock Lilith to realize her sexual shame. Lilith’s wisdom can help heal Uranus’ sexual wounds.
But in your method of healing each other, you may lack empathy, patience, and tolerance. You may “challenge” rather than “support” your partner to heal their wounds.
Stability will come by embracing change – not avoiding it. Buckle up!
2. You Bring Out Each Other’s Radical Side
Lilith can draw out Uranus’ hidden desires while Uranus aims to liberate them. Uranus also inspires Lilith to transform their shadow totally.
Inhibitions fall away when you’re together. You may find yourself saying or doing shocking things you never would alone. Your Lilith partner can awaken your Uranian darkest impulses, but also help you feel free.
Your relationship provides a safe haven where you both can be provocative, weird, and totally yourselves. You inspire each other’s independence and nonconformity. But this freedom can also be destabilizing.
3. Power Struggles Can Arise Often
With this turbulent square, control issues and power struggles may occur often. You both crave freedom fiercely and refuse to be dominated by the other.
Attempts to assert authority are often met with hostility and rebellion. Neither of you will submit easily. You incite each other’s resistant/stubborn side.
At times, your egos may clash explosively over the issue of responsibility. Uranus-Lilith square can indicate a lack of commitment in your partnership.