1. Intense Attraction And Passion
When Pluto opposes Lilith in synastry, your intense passion and sexual chemistry can lead to an almost obsessive attraction between you two. Raw, primal passion consumes you when you’re together. The magnetism is irresistible yet borders on being compulsive.
Your desire may feel larger than life, eclipsing all rational thought. Lilith wants to descend into Pluto’s underworld while Pluto can activate Lilith’s hidden self.
You want to get lost in fantasy worlds of erotic union. Emotions are amplified, and your senses are heightened. Together, you experience exhilarating sensual highs.
But power struggles often follow…
2. Power Struggles Around Control
Pluto-Lilith opposition can breed an ongoing battle for control in the relationship. Pluto tries to merge while Lilith fiercely protects her autonomy. Pluto may try to dominate Lilith, while Lilith resists and asserts her own powerfully rebellious nature.
Jealousy and trust issues can brew when your obsessive neediness arises. Your privacy may feel continually threatened. Your social media behaviors may even create added stress. Your relationship may feel continually threatened by perceived “rivals”.
Game playing, ego wars, intense showdowns, psychological manipulation, or periods of silent treatment can be common. In extreme cases, there may even be physical violence and sexual abuse.
The wisdom of the stars indicates the reassurance of trust is the best medicine for the soul. You must show your loyalty and commitment to your partner through your actions, not just words, and vice versa. When you require your partner a standard, you need to first demonstrate that standard yourself.
3. Emotional Intensity Can Be Overwhelming
Emotional dynamics between you two are often ultra-passionate yet also overwhelming at times. With Pluto opposite Lilith synastry, your feelings may reach extreme highs and lows regularly.
Love may feel incredibly intimate and all-consuming one day, then dramatically cooled down the next. Your minor issues can provoke huge emotional reactions. This is the battle of Pluto’s dark side and Lilith’s shadow self. There can be a tendency toward acting without first thinking.
4. There’s A Mystical, Magical Quality
The polarity between Lilith and Pluto actually infuses your relationship with a sense of mystical allure. You feel cosmically “meant to be”.
In the bedroom, sex can become an otherworldly place to experience divine transcendence. You both may be interested in Tantra. Orgasm can transport you to another realm, since Pluto intensifies the sexual desire of Lilith. Lilith also seduces Pluto.
You feel the sacred in the flesh. Your physical intimacy is a holy communion.
But beware of crossing moral lines or objectifying each other. You are not animals fulfilling animal desires, but humans fulfilling spiritual soul missions.
Role-playing and bedroom games may be exciting but discuss your boundaries honestly first. Don’t use sex to wound or manipulate. Keep your character strong and sexual boundaries stronger.