1. You May Activate Each Other’s Shadow Sides
With this quincunx, you can awaken each other’s powerful subconscious forces and hidden desires. Their North Node intrigues and empowers your Lilith, while your Lilith activates their North Node’s often repressed urges.
Together, you provide a safe space to express and embrace normally suppressed parts of yourselves. They feel permission to access their private, sensual North Node side around you, while your Lilith feels less threatened and more understood by them.
Yet these shadow sides often clash more than complement. The result can be an intense connection coupled with a vague sense of uneasiness.
2. Taboo, Karmic Feelings Arise
This synastry aspect can engender taboo, forbidden feelings between you two. Your connection may have a past life or addictive karmic quality that defies logic. You likely experience a destined, “meant to be” sensation when together.
Powerful emotions like jealousy, obsession, or possession may arise, which you keep secret. The feeling this person “belongs” to you (or vice versa) in some primal way can come up. Love here can turn dark and compulsive.
3. Control Battles Can Happen
With Lilith quincunx North Node synastry, fierce power struggles around control may often arise in the relationship. You may try to dominate each other’s free will.
They may try to tame your wild Lilith nature, to make you conform to their image of who you “should” be according to their North Node’s journey. But your Lilith resists, fighting to break free.
Likewise, your Lilith may attempt to sway your partner off their destined North Node’s path. You could draw them into unplanned sensual detours and taboo explorations. You trigger their temptations or the desire to go in the opposite direction.
Essentially, you try to control each other’s evolutionary paths. Power battles can erupt over whose destiny supersedes. Ultimately, you will need to find a shared path, not your path or your partner’s path.