1. A Magnetic Attraction
When Jupiter opposes Lilith in synastry, you feel an intense, almost addictive attraction to each other! This is because opposites tend to attract. The chemistry between you is electric and exhilarating. You seem to can’t keep your hands off each other.
This is a sexually charged dynamic that stirs powerful desire. The passions run high from the start. Jupiter finds Lilith incredibly alluring and sexy. Lilith admires Jupiter’s confidence and optimism.
However, this magnetic attraction has a dark underbelly, influenced by Lilith. It activates your uncontrollable urges and hedonism. Jupiter’s moral boundaries often get pushed hard. You can bring out each other’s wild side, sometimes in unhealthy ways.
2. A Liberating, Non-Conforming Bond
This connection has a liberating quality about it. Together, you give each other the freedom to defy social norms, break rules, and question everything. There’s little regard for how you “should” act.
You free each other from conformity and encourage authentic self-expression. There should be no judgment for being different. You want your partner to embrace their truest self.
However, this can be either positive or negative. The negative manifestations here mean you throw your moral codes out of the door and “do as thou wilt”. This can be a relationship that embraces gender role reversal, group sex, sex in the public, or open relationship.
This will only bring karmic consequences to you in the future, because any action that goes against the law of nature will bring suffering.
3. Your Morals May Conflict
You likely have some opposing viewpoints on ethics and traditional values. Where Jupiter seeks spiritual wisdom, Lilith may rebel against dogma. Your worldviews often diverge.
For instance, one of you may highly value family and tradition while the other seeks a common-law partnership. You tend to judge each other for being too moralistic or too noncommittal.
Given Jupiter’s expansive nature and Lilith’s rebellious streak, your egos can easily get out of control in this dynamic. You may frequently trigger each other’s arrogance and pride. Power struggles often arise as you compete over who gets to make decisions.
Competitiveness can drive out compassion. Rather than understand each other, you may get wrapped up in proving who’s right and superior. You could start keeping score and tallying up “wins.”